Recently
we’ve noticed an influx of hidden spiritualists coming to the center. We’ve
heard that our atmosphere allows everyone a place and community where they are
allowed to be authentic to who they really are. Though we love providing a
place for people to evolve into themselves, we began to ponder why it’s so hard
to tell our friends, family members and even strangers about our spiritual
side. As if being spiritual is something to be ashamed of.
So
what is it that holds us back from being open about our spirituality? Fear,
rejection, and judgment tend to be the three common feelings associated with
hiding parts of ourselves from others. Why fear the reactions that others may
have towards your beliefs? Will that change who you are? Will your life
suddenly shift in some way? Just think about it, you may be exactly the person
to open their minds to new ways of thinking. Maybe you’re just the right one to
help them accept other people for who they are.
Just
as everything else in life, it takes time to become open about your new thought
beliefs. First, you must be comfortable with who you are and accept yourself
fully. You can’t possibly speak with confidence about yourself if you aren’t
comfortable with you. Second, it’s imperative that you practice what you
preach. People can see through deceit easily. If you aren’t walking the path
that you are teaching others about, they will see that and run towards the nearest
exit. Next, have an air of confidence. People believe what they cannot break.
Speak what you know and really believe in it. Let your spirit shine through as
you speak to others about the positive effects your spirituality has had on
your life. Last but not least, accept others as they are. Your goal shouldn’t
be to convert others to your way of life. By sharing your spiritual beliefs you
are simply being authentic to you. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable and
sharing the parts of yourself that you’re most afraid of being judged can only
make you stronger.
You
don’t have to shout from the rooftops about who you are, but by planting a seed
here and there, you are allowing yourself to grow. The Open Mind Center will be
here as
your safe haven on your journey to authenticity!