We all
desire unconditional love. Many people turn to candles to help manifest their
vision for this very thing. Unfortunately, manifesting with candles doesn’t
always work. It isn’t a defect in the candle, it’s us. Sometimes we are not
specific enough. Maybe we haven’t worked on ourselves enough to be able to give
what we are asking for in return.
The first step in candle magick is to really assess
what you want. What things are non-negotiable and what can you compromise on?
Next, take a look at yourself. Without judgment, try to pinpoint a few issues
in past relationships and see what part you played in the problem. Have you had
reoccurring issues that you need to pay attention to?
Lastly, choose the candle that best suits what you
want to manifest. Anoint your candle with oil or herbs (optional), and
visualize everything you desire as you hold your candle. By doing this you are
setting your intention into the candle and charging it specifically for your
needs. Below are a few candle suggestions and their purposes.
* Clearing Relationships -This candle is used
to clear any old debris and toxins from past relationships. Perfect to use
after a breakup or before starting a new relationship.
* Soul Mate- This candle is used to attract
“the one”. Remember that our soul mate isn’t always who we think it is.
* Passion- Use this candle when you’d like to add a little
fun or spontaneity into a current relationship.
* Happy Marriage- Use this candle to bring peace,
happiness and joy back into a marriage or committed relationship.
* Attraction/Love- This candle is self explanatory,
but be very specific.